From Trauma to Transformation
Are you blocked and terrified to go after your big dreams? Are you addicted to comparing yourself with Instagram influencers? Are you afraid of what other people think?
Do you want to free yourself from your own negative thinking? I can help you do it!
How?
Hypnotherapy, Cognitive Behavior Modification, and Past-Life Regression can free you from the wounds of your childhood and release the trauma stored in your body.
Deep seated early childhood trauma results because you might have had what I’ll call “problematic parenting,” or abusive siblings or relatives, or maybe you just don’t belong to the “right” class, color, or religion.
As my clients know, I do “No Blame Therapy.” the old-fashioned “talk therapy,” where you come week in week after week to complain about your childhood, only results in triggering your trauma.
I did ten years of weekly talk therapy, so I know the techniques well. It is wonderful and soothing to have a kind person mirror back your pain and tell you that it was not your fault, but it doesn’t change your brain or heal the trauma. It keeps you in “Entitled Victim Mentality.”
If you can change your perspective, you can change your life! Regression therapy heals old wounds. The powerful transformational techniques my mentor, Brian Weiss, MD, taught empower my work.
Over the past 20 years, I’ve worked with so many creative people who want to use their talent to make other people happy, and yet sometimes circumstances prevent them from having the career they want. Actors, writers, dancers, musicians, entertainers, and all, from my point of view, their “soul mission” is to express themselves in their chosen field. Is it easy? Not at all. If it were easy, everyone would do it. But it’s worth the fight.
When sandy-haired Adrian, 32, called, he told me about the crippling panic attacks that stopped him from enjoying the fantastic career he’d carved out for himself. His digestive system was completely out of whack, and his anxiety felt uncontrollable.
Tall, 6’5′, handsome, and wildly talented, he’d walked away from the world of classical music because he didn’t “fit in.” He was literally too big for the chairs! So, he created his own new music brand and found worldwide success. He performed in front of thousands of cheering fans and had a gaggle of groupie girls who came along with all that. But casual sex bored him, and he was concerned that he’d ruined his sexuality. He’d recently fallen deeply in love with a wonderful woman, but he couldn’t access his sexual passion. So these were significant problems for a young man and an artist.
After I explained to him how fussy sexual wiring can be, especially for men, and then asked him the targeted questions I needed to ask in the first two sessions, we proceeded to the regression work, which I can only do on the third session and beyond that.
The first lifetime he “saw” was that of a poor girl in the late 1800s in London. Because of the squalid poverty she grew up in, she was forced into a life of prostitution.
Adrian did such a lovely job of writing up his regression, and this is what he wrote:
“For a while, everything was black – I didn’t see anything. I got a little frustrated. It felt tough to relax and let go.
I sensed moments from childhood – not visually, but I felt the emotion. Then, I experienced my birth in this life. I didn’t want to leave my mother’s belly. They had to pull me out, but when I saw my mother’s face, her eyes, and soul, I felt very safe.
My father was also in the room; he looked anxious, but I felt his love.
Then, I returned to an earlier life in the early 1920s as Clara. I lived in London, and I was a prostitute, and I was addicted to heroin. (I could see a street sign saying Gatwick RD/ST)
As Clara, I grew up with a mother who didn’t like her. My father was a shoemaker, whom I recognized to be my grandfather in my current life. He was never home. He worked all the time and didn’t pay much attention to Clara.
I felt unloved, unwanted, and trapped. Then, around the age of 15, I met a guy with whom I fell in love. He was a bit older and was extremely handsome, fun, and charming.
He was doing drugs, and therefore, I also started doing drugs. I got hooked, addicted – I felt numb. It was a warm, wonderful feeling but also an intense fear. I was paralyzed.
In my subsequent experience as Clara, I was having sex with a customer. A disgusting, drunk, and violent man, but strangely, I actually kind of enjoyed it. Or at least I couldn’t feel anything. I was comfortable and numb. Heroin in your blood is the best feeling ever! No wonder it’s so addicting!
In a subsequent experience, I was in bed with another customer. I was terrified and felt that I couldn’t breathe. He stabbed me in my heart. I felt pain in my chest, but not even close to the pain I would imagine if I really got stabbed in my heart. I guess I was too sedated to feel anything.
I went to the “in-between” And saw my soul group around me. I felt very safe now – one of the souls who talked to me was my beloved aunt ‘Hanne’ from my present life. (She died from cancer around 20 years ago at the age of just 39) Even though I was young 20 years ago, I remember her vividly – she meant so much to me. It was beautiful to see her again in the “In-between.” (What Buddhists call it.)
The life lesson I had to learn from my life as Clara was to be aware of ‘temptations’ and understand the consequences that can follow. Clara took a wrong turn when she was 15, and that was the beginning of the end.
Then Stephanie took me to another lifetime.
I was a monk living in northern India by the mountains – my name was ‘Tuka.’ I saw myself as a child living in a little village. I recognized my mother as my Aunt Hanne. Looking at her made me very happy and safe. My connection to her is mighty.
Subsequent experience: Tuka is in his 20s. He’s sitting in front of his master—the current Dalai Lama. Everything was peaceful, and visiting this life was a very calming experience. Suddenly, my present ‘me’ was there with Tuka and his master.
They wanted to heal my stomach. It was the most fantastic feeling. It felt like they were flushing warm water through all my veins and bones, filling me with the greatest joy. It was divine, and I started crying.
I can’t recall when I’ve felt this much joy before – excellent!
Tuka asked me if it would be okay if he could be part of my present life. My current life is Tuka’s dream. So Tuka can come to perform with me.
This life is such a great one. I have a great family, great friends, and a unique talent – I am a healer – and in this life, I’ll heal others and myself with my music. I just need to be calm, patient, and satisfied with myself – regardless of anything – as long as I know my temptations.
I know that my temptations are responsible for my sensitive digestive system and also my disrupted sexuality. I need to be aware of that and act accordingly.
Every day, I think about my Tibetan monk; my energy has changed tremendously lately. I feel good!
Thank you, Stephanie!”
That’s what he wrote. Adrian went on to perform without any anxiety. That experience healed the trauma of his past and opened his heart to love.
I use techniques taught by UCLA’s Peter Levine, M.D., Daniel Sigel, MD, Stanford’s Robert Sopolsky, and the author of “The Body Keeps the Score,” Bessel van der Kolk, MD, all pioneers in Body Mind Medicine and healing trauma.
If you’re ready to do the work and explore what might be blocking you, call me.
Sending you love,
Stephanie
My Audios & Ebooks
All Audios and Ebooks are Instantly Downloadable
