New Year! New You!
When I first met Laura, a successful social worker, she had struggled with being overweight her whole life. She’d even gone so far as to have gastric bypass surgery. She lost 75 pounds but gained most of it back. She gained it back because she didn’t change her eating or exercise habits, and more importantly, she didn’t heal the underlying trauma that caused her eating disorder.
That’s why she sought my help. Before we met, she tried every diet and every pill, and nothing worked long-term. Consequently, she was desperate. Hypnotherapy, Cognitive Behavior Modification, and Past-Life Regressions helped Laura change her habits and heal her broken heart. Laura learned how to stand up for herself and fight for her life.
I remember our first session so clearly because when she lay on my couch, I looked at her luminous Black skin and huge almond-brown eyes and thought: Wow! What a beauty!
Stunned by her beauty, I knew she was hiding in her fat suit. “Don’t look at me!” That’s why she surrounded herself with seventy-five pounds of protective padding. It kept her away from living her life.
Why was she so afraid of her power? Why was she so scared of her beauty?
Over two years of uncovering the mystery of her self-defeating beliefs and behaviors, Laura worked hard to dig them out of her subconscious mind, and she fought ferociously to change them. It wasn’t easy or a slam dunk. It took courage and determination. Over time, not overnight, she healed her wounded “Inner Child,” and she began to listen to the needs and wants of her body. Most of all, she stopped punishing herself for not being perfect.
Laura was kind enough to write up her last Past-Life Regression, and it’s below, exactly as she wrote it. In the regression, I asked, “Why are you so afraid of your power and beauty?”
Laura says:
“The first part of the regression is a childhood memory of my seventh birthday party. The overall feeling that I am experiencing is anxiety and a sense of responsibility for other people’s behavior and their experience of the party. It was clear from my memory that I was already a social worker, even at seven.
The second part of the regression explored why behaving “perfectly” became the theme of this lifetime. My guide shows up as a radio from the 1930s. In this lifetime, I am a man wearing shiny Oxford shoes, a pinkie ring, and a lovely pinstripe suit. I am standing in an office space in a large city. My name sounds like Jharit.
Exploring early childhood, it is clear I am of Slavic descent and living with my sizeable immigrant family in a busy city. The family is very poor and lives in a tenement apartment. I am the middle child of 11 children. My father is a laborer who shovels dirt. My mother is raising a large group of children. Both parents are kind but exhausted.
The first significant event is the death of the baby in the family, and my mother’s grieving.
The next event is my work as a child laborer doing dangerous work in a factory.
The next significant event was the death of my father. Soon after, I became involved in petty crime, stealing, and robbery. I become a member of a gang. My oldest brother is the gang leader.
Next, I see images that show my brutality. The gang collects protection money from business owners, steals goods, and runs a prostitution ring. I can be violent and brutal. Everyone fears me as I walk down the street or drive by in my fancy car. I have a girlfriend who I like because she is tough like me.
The next significant event I see is me standing in a pool of blood, and several other members of our gang have gunned down a group of men on the street over a territory dispute.
The next significant event was my murder at the hands of my brother. The reason was I was getting too arrogant, too cocky, and trying to take over as gang leader and push his brother out.
After my death, I go before the tribunal to atone for my brutality and murderous behavior. I am told I need to rest and reflect on my actions. In this lifetime, the soul lesson was about my use of brute force and cockiness without limits. This is what got me killed. His advice for his future self (me) is to have some of this cockiness, to “knuckle up” and get tougher.
As Jarit, I go to the “in-between” and am surrounded by my soul group. My soul’s color is pale blue. The guide appears as the radio. I am told I need to go to the tribunal. My elder is wearing a medallion with the Libra symbol of Justice. They tell me I need to make amends for my behavior this lifetime by going to Reclamation for a time.
Next, I stand there as myself in this lifetime to ask what is the most important thing I must do now in order to open up to some of the confidence I have been afraid of due to Jarit’s bad behavior, which led to his death at a young age. This may be where my fear of being confident in this lifetime came from.
The elder shows me in a beautiful dress and tells me I need to get “gussied up” in this lifetime, like Jarit and his great wardrobe, to gain confidence and escape hiding. I feel elevated, and it’s obvious they are always on my side.”
That’s what she wrote! Bravo, Laura! Good job! And I know she will “knuckle up!”
Seeing a Past-Life a client considers a life where they’ve been an abuser or abused physical or political power allows my clients to get out of destructive “Victim” mode that traps people into blaming someone, something, or just society for what’s wrong in their life or the world at large.
Change your habits, and you can change your life. Laura did it, and so can you!
If you need help, please give me a call.
Sending you love,
Stephanie
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